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Incognito Dating

Face-checked community

Real people. Better dates.

Every member completes a live face check and profile photo review in the app before they can meet, match, or message.

Get it on Google Play
iOS App Store release is not available yet. This control is disabled.

Signup, Discover, and chat stay in the mobile app. Why is signup only in the app?

Discover

Sample

Sample member, 27

Sample city

  • Coffee
  • Travel
  • Music
Demonstration profile. Not a real member.

Live face verification

A selfie confirms you match your photos.

Profile photo review

Photos are reviewed before matching.

Private by design

Exact location is not shared.

How it works

Verified first, then you connect

The whole path happens in the Incognito Dating app. These screens are demonstrations, not real members.

  1. 1

    Create a profile

    In the app, add your display name, photos, bio, and interests. Accounts are created on mobile, not on this website.

    Your profile

    Sample
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    Sample profile

    Display name, photos, bio

    PhotosAdded
    BioAdded
    InterestsAdded
    Demonstration profile. Not a real member.
  2. 2

    Complete face verification

    A live selfie confirms you are 21 or older and match your photos. That selfie stays in restricted review systems and is never shown to other members.

    Face check

    Sample

    Live selfie

    Matched to your photos. Not shown to other members.

    • Age 21+ confirmed in the app
    • Profile photos reviewed
    Demonstration profile. Not a real member.
  3. 3

    Choose a Circle

    Pick how you want to meet: coffee, dinner, weekend plans, a relationship, or the Pro Incognito Circle, where personality comes before photos.

    Choose a Circle

    Sample
    • Coffee & Conversation
    • Dinner Date
    • Weekend Plans
    • Serious Dating
    • Incognito CirclePro
    Demonstration profile. Not a real member.
  4. 4

    Send introductions

    Write a short introduction inside your Circle. The other person can accept it before a conversation starts.

    Introduction

    Sample

    Sample message

    Coffee this weekend? I am free Saturday afternoon.

    Send introduction

    Waiting until they accept. Sample only.

    Demonstration profile. Not a real member.
  5. 5

    Chat

    After an introduction is accepted, you chat privately in the app. Blocking and reporting stay available from the conversation.

    Chat

    Sample

    Saturday at the cafe works for me.

    Sample member: See you then.

    Demonstration profile. Not a real member.

Circles

Date with a clear intent

Circles group members by how they want to meet, so Discover is not an endless undifferentiated swipe. You choose a Circle in the app.

  • Coffee & Conversation

    People interested in meeting for coffee.

  • Dinner Date

    People open to a dinner invitation.

  • Weekend Plans

    Find someone with compatible weekend plans.

  • Serious Dating

    Verified people looking for a relationship.

  • Pro membership

    Incognito Circle

    Connect through personality before photos.

Privacy and verification

Built so members can trust the room

These are the product controls in the app today. Sample screens elsewhere on this page are demonstrations, not real profiles.

  • Live face verification

    A live selfie confirms you are 21 or older and match the photos on your profile. Selfies are kept for review and are not shown to other members.

  • Profile photo review

    Profile photos are reviewed before matching unlocks, which reduces misleading or unsafe imagery.

  • Location stays approximate

    The app can use an approximate location for nearby people. Your exact location is not shared with other members.

  • Incognito Circle

    The Pro Incognito Circle is for connecting through personality before photos. It is one of the Circles you can choose in the app.

  • App-only accounts

    Creating an account, verification, Discover, introductions, and chat are available only in the mobile app.

  • Block and report

    From a chat you can block someone or report them. Safety Standards explain how reports are reviewed.

Read Safety StandardsPrivacy Policy

Download

Meet verified people in the app

Incognito Dating is on Google Play. The iOS App Store listing is not available yet, so there is no iOS download button. This website does not offer web signup or web chat.

Get it on Google Play
iOS App Store release is not available yet. This control is disabled.

Chat

Sample

Saturday at the cafe works for me.

Sample member: See you then.

Demonstration profile. Not a real member.